Giving is selfish ?? Hah ! we can buy happi-ness ?

Giving is selfish ?? Hah ! we can buy happi-ness ?

Do you ever heard that before ?

Is it really like that ? We’ve been taught since we’re at kindergarten that we must give others and it’s good thing to give other that needed, right ?

Do you know that actually we are selfish to do that ? Yes !! It’s possible.

These days there’s many natural disaster such as earthquake, tsunami, storm, tornado, etc. There’s one earthquake in China that makes people all around the world awake from their routine. Many people donate and giving hands to the Chinese that suffer, are these peoples selfish too ?

Actually we unrealized are selfish, for some people. The more we give, the more we selfish. For some people, they need something to take in order for them to give something, this is called take and give. But do you know, naturally everything that we give, we will receive something else ? We realize or not, we will receive something when we give something no matter who is your God, do you have religion or not, it’s something that we cannot change, it’s natural law.

When we giving something to other people, sometime we feel some good feeling and we enjoyed it. We try to give again, even more and more, and the “good feeling” get stronger and stronger. Even more if you see that your gift is really makes the person that receive it really happy and useful to him. We started addicted to it and we cannot let go that feeling.

When we started got addicted, that time we are being selfish unconsciously, because we want to give more in order for us to get that feeling! Is it logic for you ?

By the way, what “good feeling” is ? what the heck is that ? The answer is happiness !! Do you realize when you sacrifice something to other, that time you will receive happiness ? More we give, more we happy. And we started to get addicted to it.

There’s only few people know this, even realize this. But please do not surprise, actually many people, billions of people already do this and get their happiness no matter how big their happiness is, it’s depends on how much sacrifice that they give to others. There’s a lot of foundation all over the world proving that they exist, even though there are some numbers of foundation that only as vehicle for bad things (money laundry, protect some rich man asset, promotion vehicle, etc).

So, right now you know actually we can buy happiness. Many people wrongly define what is happiness, sometime when they reach their goal, they called that happiness, when they can buy something that they want very much, they called that happiness. When they have money, they called it’s happiness. If you introspect yourself, it’s not really a happiness, but it’s only an excitement !! When you reach what you want, no matter what it is, you will get excited, your adrenalin very strong that time. But it’s only temporary, check it after you read this.

We can only be happy when we give something to other, when we share something to other no matter what it is. It’s a “LAW OF NATURE” ! what we receive is what we get ! Happiness = giving to other.

How to buy happiness efficiently and effectively ? Do you want to receive it quickly and deeply ? Don’t be afraid, we don’t need to give something big or many many times to get that. The key only sincerity and sensitivity, when you give to someone make sure you really mean that, and feel that. How to do that ? Simple, just imagine that you are the one that receive your gift and feel how’s their sadness/unhappiness/any negative things, then after that imagine how useful your gift is to them and imagine how’s the face of the receiver, how happy are they when they receive your gift. Do this every time you give something to others. Make yourself addicted to it, it’s called addicted to love !

May you will have happiness and everlasting forever and ever.

BRIDGE

-Connecting Love-

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